This is a website that has been put in this place to show there is no reason to quit, but to keep on going. Just realize that it is a given to have negatives. It's how you deal with them that matters. Mentally picture yourself throwing out anything that bothers you out of your mind. Replace it with a solution. If we get that part, then we will be traveling at great heights.
All of us know we can not go on like this forever because we are going to ground zero. We thought about creating a dream, safe haven, or a place where everything is within our control, but the reality is everything goes against us. This is resistance to help us craft individuality.
I had troubles and struggles. I thought of ways of making life better, and ended in disappointment.
I had to fall a hundred times to get up. But honestly getting up was extremely difficult because of the view of the world.
My because above is what holds the answer. It's called my view. They have great books out there that can help deal with self-development. Many people out have gone to great places due to just embracing the thoughts of these books.
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push
force - Willpower- We have to push ourselves whether we like to do something or
not. This takes a great amount of energy, which can drain you mentally. At some
point, the energy and power wears out.
There are forces to push and/or pull us.(http://www.peppergang.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/push-pull. gif)
Pull
force- Enthusiasm
This
force pulls you forward. It is towards something you are passionate about and
does not take that much energy. In a way, it is a force of attraction.
In order to really get this train going, you
must start off with 0 or a flat line.
That
means if you are negative, you must be positive. Bringing positivity comes from
your change of attitude. I know it all falls back on attitude.
Most
of the time I try to use the pull force. It is better if you work smarter than
harder. Or you should work hard the right way.
In the end, it is up to us what forces we allow to influence us.
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A great-working
relationship with your boss sets you up for a success at your work place. When
it comes to any advancement or opportunity, he or she will reach out to you.
The reason is because you have built agreat relationship with him.
Here is where the Hows come in:
How is it done?
Mastering expressiveness-
All of this
starts off with your facial expressions and body language. You have to have a
great smile when you walk in. In your mind, the why to the smile is because he
has given you a job. A great handshake shows that you are not any normal
individual. It means he has met the right person.In a way, it shows you are the chosen one to
run his operations. The greatness in the
handshake comes in the firmness of the handshake. You do not want to give the
fish hands or the flimsy handshake.The
firmness exhibits you have control in your actions. Hence, he knows your action
in the work place will do the talking.
After the period you get the job, you want to tell serious
things ain not-so-serious tone. Otherwise, he will consider you as a waste of
energy. He wants to deal with someone who is emotionally stable. Bringing in
emotions curtails the momentum he wants to move forward with.A question of “how are you?” is very
essential to know how you would manage yourself in his presence. If he is
upset, you know you must be on your game no matter what. If he is happy, do
your work as usual without the extreme perception of stress. Stay cool, calm
and collective.They will be very
impressed with someone who has the ability to compose himself or manage his emotions.
Realize that
any fear that arises is just a figment of your imagination. You must confront
that fear. Relax it is not a big deal.Why do get bothered by something that you do not even know with a great
surety?
Calmness is what will help you win over the boss. Do not be like this guy.
To
show that you are reliable, you have to be punctual. You can only be reliable
if you are there every minute. Being upfront will show you your reliability to
him. Let them know when you have to take off or not. Look at him in the eyes. The strong eye contact shows him you are a worthy
person to deal with.Reliability is
shown by the control you give the boss by bringing things in his knowledge.
Understanding
Personality
There are
bosses that have dominating personalities and they test you for some funny
reason. See it as a game. Play your best before you get knocked out. It is very necessary to understand his
personality. He may joke in a manner that you have no idea about. It can piss
you off if his humor is outside your knowledge. It can lead to termination.
Understand him and dominate his ways.
Having the right mindset
The right
mindset can be equated to attitude.Just
thing about the mindset, if you were to go out hunting for a deer, then you are
not going to think about resting. Full attention will be required.It can happen that the deer can give you the
run for your money because you do not have the attitude of a hunter, but of someone
who wants to slack off.When you are in
your boss’ presence, you want to get ready to work.The boss wants to see if you can do some
damage. Obviously, I meant damage in a good way.
The right mindset will aid you in operating in appropriate
way in your boss’ presence.
The common mentality is that the boss is someone who you should
fear because he is at another level. To my and your knowledge, we are both
flesh , blood and a bag of air. We do not need to put him on a pedestal. That
is why we cannot have a normal conversation with him or her.As we do converse with him, you must
duplicate his great communication skills because it will get you ahead in life.
The negatives presented to you do not allow us to confront going outside the comfort zone of building
the relationship with your boss.
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Motivation in today’s era can be really difficult during the tough times in life. The perfect ideal world is where things are just given to you. You get the perfect car (Audi R8), the perfect house (big mansion) and the perfect girl. Of course, the reality is we have to work for this. If things were just given to you, life would be boring, dull and tasteless. But in reality, we live in a life with long drives in traffic or a jammed train system, and pockets are shallow to not support even the most basic of needs. This constant struggle leaves a grand frown on your face. If you perceive yourself as having the ideal world, then you will be happy. What you perceive can be different from the barren land, but your perception can help you set you in the right direction. Your perception is brightened by your attitude. With focus, goals and a great group of friends, you can take your vehicle on a great path through the tough times.
Attitude is the partner of motivation.
With a great mindset or attitude you can go forward. Attitude or the way you perceive the world can have a great effect on the way you talk and walk. In slang terms, we call it “swagger”. Attitude is a lending hand to motivation. When you lose your attitude, it is hard to motivate yourself. According to my medical knowledge, the prefrontal cortex is the faculty of the brain that gives you motivation. It creates the internal light. There are some great tips you can use to maintain your attitude and cuddle this rejuvenating light.
I know you guys are curious to know more about what this attitude exactly is. To find out more about attitude, click on Attitude. How do you get motivated when the times are tough? This question is very important. When times are tough, we fall down a thousand times. We have to act like a brother or father to pick us back up. I know I have fallen down many times and lifted myself up. You not only have to have a great attitude, but you must maintain it consistently. In order to do that you have to understand your psychology, what things you say or do has a positive effect on your mind. For example, I walk like a Tom Cruise and talk like an astounding motivational speaker. These patterns of walking and talking positively feeds into your mind creating a positive state of mind. Let me unleash some great techniques that I have been using. Here find out more about these techniques by clicking on the following hyperlink: Maintenance of attitude.
The internal light( motivation) comes from the prefrontal cortex.
You do need to focus to get things accomplished in your life in the worst of times. You have to be present in time and operate with great optimism. When you are not focused, you are way off from your target. Indifference and mentality are other great things that help in focusing. Indifference is when you are non-reactive to any sort of stimulus whether it's something that is saddening or makes you smile.
The origin of this motivation comes from goals. When we have set goals or things we want to accomplish, time is worth it. Setting goals aid in the management of time and energy. This is what drives us or gets us closer to the end of what we want. The curiousity as to where you see yourself in 5 or 10 years is the energy that pushes you along the way. So go home tonight or if you are already sitting at your table at home, write down goals. You want to take care of each day. A plan of goals makes a productive day. Big tough times seem small when you get rid of tasks or errands one at a time. You have to comprehend the logic that a large piece is a sum of many small pieces. If you see everything in life with this logical reasoning, grand things in life will seem miniature.
You also need a positive circle of influence or the type of people you can assocate yourself with. The circle of influence is like the ground for growth.You want to become like these individuals because they have conditioned themselves not to hold on to bad habits and make great habits. Theses individuals know that these great habits help them in the long run. We can grow with them at a personal level, become social beings and gain the understanding to find solutions to problems. You become a product of the great habits you picked up. It allows to cope with the challenges of the tough times. Lets take this for example: I used to spend money without thinking about it. As a result, that financially set me back. With my group of friends, I learned how to budget and manage money.
All in all, attitude, focus, goals and circle of influence allows smooth sailing through the tough times.
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There has been times in life I felt like giving up, but I came back in great shape. This is something we are tested day in and day out. What keeps us going? is persistence. Persistance can be considered as a heavy word. It feels like it takes forever, but what I am about to share is absolutely possible. YOU WANT TO FIND OUT HOW YOU CAN DEAL WITH THIS, right??? Well below are the necessary tools that will give you great strength in life.
Is it bothering you too?!! Question Is being persistent difficult? 1 . You:Yes It is ! Me: Great! That means you will be happy to find out some useful tool. 2. No I am the beast of persistence, but I will still want to know what you got to say.
Tools you need to deal with the long wait.
These are the following things you need to master persistence:
1 Great Attitude- You want to have the best view of the thing, person or situation. Persistence can start affecting people because it is a test of time period in the hope that something will come around. When you have a great attitude, you see how the long wait will be ending soon. In this way, you encourage yourself from moment-to-moment. To gain a better understanding of this entity called attitude, click on this hyper link: Attitude is how you visualize things around you. .
2. Clarity of thought - When the mind is filled with many thoughts , you do not know what to handle. Momentarily, you want to forget everything . Obviously , it will fill up like a glass of water. Something that is once filled must be emptied. Once, there is mental clarity start focusing on a couple of tasks you want to pursue.
3. Maintain that great attitude. We might get pumped up at the beginning of our trip of persistence. We are upbeat and friendly , but that fire goes down . You need to rekindle that same fire. Devising mental tricks would be the best way to conquer your attitude. Maintaining that tempo at the beginning of the day does not daunt you from opportunities that must be handled the right way in the journey of persistence. What are the mental tricks? A. You want to make commands for your mind.
When it comes to negative thoughts or doubts, you want to say :"SAM stop thinking about that." In your case, say John, Sara, or whoever. Definitely say your name in the command because you want to move yourself. You are your own sergeant.
eg. You want to approach a speaker after a speech or the love or your life. Negative thoughts such as the speaker is too good and I can not approach him arises. With the command system, you crush the negatives there.
Doubts or so many unknowns create the same effect as negative thoughts. When you are not sure about things around you, you have no certainty within yourself. I usually say " SAM if you do not know what's the matter, what is the point of thinking about it. This last technique is extremely effective because I am able to bring my attitude back up. When you feel pressure building up on you or you need control over something, you tell yourself: "SAM slow down". You will have to go against the happenings in your life.
You want to have a great story . This story is not any normal story, but the character of the story is someone you want to become. These are self-affirmations : you start breathing, feeling, eating ,drinking or etc. with that perspective in mind. You want to do it so many times in the mirror that the person on paper becomes alive. To find out more ideas on maintaining your attitude, click this hyperlink
This is the story I read in the mornings to get myself going.
picture is on the computer.
4. Have goals and dreams. Know where you are going or what your purpose is.
Your goals are what creates the focal point for your life. This is what allows you to look forward. When goals are put in place, we manage life with enthusiasm. Enthusiasm generates mental and physical energy that aid in moving forward with excitement . My why or purpose in life is more of an emotional tie. When your reason has a deep root, you carry out actions without a thought. My deep root comes from relieveing my parents of their jobs. They have sweated and bled for me in their lives working to give us a living. I want them to be free from all this and to do whatever that they want to do. I want to help my brother Gagan finish his architectural degree. I want to finish up my degree of medicine . I see that I own a hospital that is a huge infrastructure and right at the bottom in the front parking lot I stand there. I am next to my Audi R8 in white panels. There are a couple of spots open so that nobody crashes into my car. I have a huge mansion with many bedrooms, bathrooms , entertainment room, and a circular fountain in the front with a circular driveway around it. I am on my yacht sitting on my lawn chair in my trunk shorts. My beautiful girlfriend hands me the corona beer. This full picture of what I want keeps me going.
This is how I want the Audi R8 to look like and it keeps me going.
Out of the four tools, which have started using already?
1. Great attitude
2. Clarity of mind
3. Maintenance of great attitude
4. Have goals and dreams.
Questions for you to answer
1. Do you have great techniques to manage your attitude? If you do, please share them in the comment section below? ( The answer does not have to be too long.) 2. Make a list of some of your tools that help you become persistent in life. ( in comment section- (The answer does not have to be too long.)
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We are normal people. You may be not know us. We probably have crossed your paths. You are an individual who like to share ideas. Creating some idea from something non-physical is our way of thinking. Mental images or ideas come to life like dreams become reality. We like to share videos, images, techniques or ideas, so that facilitates people's lives. Who are bloggers? You would like to know , right?!!! So stick around.
Bloggers are normal looking people like this. See who I am
through my google profile on the right side of the page( or click here).
Why do we seek these ideas?
We like people to be benefited somehow. This life is filled with positives and negatives. Our lives are not so much consumed by positives because they just come our ways. We are obsessed with not getting passed negatives or the struggles because we do not redirect our focus to finding a solution. We like to discuss solutions according to problems we tackled. The network of ideas are great as a source or reservoir of solutions. The bottom line is that we are problem solvers.
Bloggers are problems solvers. This does not mean we focus on numbers,
but more on problems that do not allow us to go forward in life.
Personality of a blogger
From personality, we are the same as someone like your brother, father, son or etc. We are diverse as personas you notice in real life. We have normal moods or feelings. We feel anger, happiness, sadness or whatever the feeling maybe . We are humorous, or mischievous. In writing, you can find out our personality through writing style. I know throughout my blogs that I like to use metaphor and similes. I like to add flavor or spices into my blog. Until a cook does not add spice, he feels like something is missing. Also, I like to use humor via pictures and examples I use.
This perception of blogger personality is hidden because we do not have a face-to-face chat. In today's world, we should incorporate videos because they allow others to see who you are. Show your emotions and humor. To admit something, I am a shy character on camera, but my job is to expand my comfort zone. You will be expecting videos in the future from me, but for now you can check my video below.
This video focuses on comfort zone.
As a blogger , what would you use or are currently using? I would really like to get to know you. I like uniques writing style in the blogging community. Please place some links in the comment section below. Who are you as a blogger?
Plus videos build trust. Videos are an interactive media. Interactions equal engagements. When we engage in a conversation with each other, we create that rapport. Rapports can be as solid as great relationships (what is a great relationship?) you have with your family or friends.
Can you start blogging? Yes you can!!
Who can stop you from sharing or contributing your own ideas? You are a captain of your own ship or car. Your license to the car is your first step of writing your thoughts on paper. If you carry yourself with a great attitude (what is great attitude?) , then you can get this done. When you have an idea, just start writing it down. Do not let it escape.
See this. I just start scribbling on paper. And
it came to life on my blog on (hubpages on comfort zone).
Operating as a blogger
Write down your notions when you mental channels are unblocked. When the channels are blocked , I usually write my struggles that I deal with in life. Then along sides the problems, I point to a solution. I walk around or separate myself from the place of work. I jog so that the blood flows all over my body. When blood circulates through your brain, your mind gets active. Right after returning from jogging, you wan to capture everything on paper. From there, you want to brainstorm ideas. An idea is analogous to a seed. When the seed is sown, a stem starts growing . The stem grows branches, which represent the brainstormed ideas. You do not have to focus so much on grammar, syntax and the minor parts of writing at first. This type of refinement can be left for the end. For now, focus on generating bullet ideas from the main idea. It happens sometimes you can come to an abrupt halt. It almost feels like your brain is drained.
This is what I exactly was talking above. Write down
you struggles.(problem column). Right next find a possible
solution.
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